02/21/2025 15:30:00 +0800
● Learn the REAL reason your biggest priority keeps slipping from your to-do list
● Understand the science behind why we delay big goals and how to rewire your brain for action.
● Unlock practical strategies to make your #1 priority feel as urgent as a board deadline - so you finally get it done.
You have that one thing, don't you? The thing that's been sitting in the back of your mind for months - maybe even years. The thing you know would make a difference to your business, to your career or to your own sense of personal fulfillment.
Maybe it's implementing finance automation or ERP upgrades. Perhaps it's upskilling your team in data storytelling or investing in your own leadership development. Maybe it's not work related at all; prioritizing your health, making time for your family, or stepping up to lead a community project that excites (and terrifies) you.
You tell yourself you'll get to it. When things settle. When the next big project wraps up. When you have more time.
Except - let's be honest - you've been saying that for a while now.
So why haven't you done it?
The Real Reason You Keep Putting It Off
If you look at your to-do list, it's not that you aren't getting things done. You're probably achieving a huge amount. The problem is that your big priority - the one that truly matters - keeps getting pushed aside.
Why? Because it's not urgent.
Stephen Covey's The Four Quadrants of Time Management explains why this happens.
Most CFOs get trapped in the Urgent & Important quadrant - where fires are burning, deadlines are looming, and everyone needs something now. These tasks demand attention, so they get done.
But the things that actually move you forward? They live in the 'important but not urgent' box. Because these don't come with flashing red lights or screaming deadlines, they quietly slip off the list.
That's because we prioritise the urgent over the important. Even when those 'urgent' tasks do nothing to move the dial long term such as unnecessary meetings, side projects and other people's unspecified data requests.
The Really, Really REAL Reason You Keep Putting It Off
It's not that you don't care.
And it's probably not because you don't have time. Let's face it; you always find the time for that last minute project that the CEO pops on your desk.
The real reason you're not making progress? Fear.
● Fear of Failure – What if I go all in and I'm not good enough? What if I take on that high-visibility project and it flops?
●Fear of Success – What if I finally do it, and I still feel unfulfilled? What if it just leads to more pressure, more expectations?
●Fear of Being Seen – What if I put myself out there and people judge me?
Fear is the reason we let other people's priorities dictate how we spend our time.
Because if we never start, we never have to face the possibility of failure.
But we also never have to face the possibility of success.
And that's how time passes - quietly, without us even realizing it.
There's science to back this up.
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2007 study by psychologist Piers Steel found that we are far more likely to procrastinate on tasks when:
● The reward is far in the future - like career progression, influence, or personal growth.
● The task feels intimidating or uncertain - like stepping up for a board role or leading a project outside your comfort zone.
In other words, the more meaningful something is, the harder it is to start.
That's why you have no problem responding to emails (instant results, instant dopamine hit) but keep putting off the application for that leadership program (long-term payoff).
Your brain naturally prioritises short-term rewards over long-term gains, even when you know the long-term option is more valuable.
How to Finally Get It Done
The only way to move forward is to treat your big priority like it's as urgent as a board deadline.Here's how;
Use the 10-Minute Rule
If the goal feels overwhelming, shrink it. Set a timer for ten minutes and do something - anything - to move it forward.
Momentum beats motivation every time.
Create the Deadline
The reason these priorities get pushed is because they feel optional. Make them non-negotiable.
● Get your CEO on board so that they can hold you accountable.
● Book the kick off meeting now, before you feel ready.
●Create and distribute the project plan to make it 'real'.
Deadlines create urgency. If you don't schedule it, it won't happen.
And if you're struggling to manage other people's priorities, check out my previous blog "The Art of Saying No (Without Losing Influence)
So, what's the one thing you've been putting off?
And more importantly - what's one small step you can take today to make it happen?
I'd love to hear your thoughts.
